I believe that: People want to do the right thing; They want their kids to be OK; and They want a fair settlement. Depending on why the divorce is happening and how recent the decision is, they may not realize this. It is the job of the professionals – and sometimes...
“You explain to people first, why is it that I think what I think? You’re not trying to prove a point. Law is not mathematics. If I am a mathematician, I am trying to prove why ‘A’ follows from ‘B.’ But this is not the nature of...
Not only doesn’t divorce have to be a nightmare, but it doesn’t have to take forever either. A surprising number of couples are able to divorce quickly and inexpensively. I am not talking about the kind that go to mills which, using a cookie cutter...
Most people want to do what they believe to be the right thing most of the time. If you can think about a time when you didn’t do the right thing, reflect on what was going on at that moment or point in your life. Chances are there was some overriding emotion...
Have a Wonderful 2012
It may seem counter-intuitive to think about giving thanks when you are going through a divorce. Let’s face it, you are probably going through the worst emotional trauma of your life. If you and your spouse mutually agreed to divorce, remember that, even though it...
